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Last week we worked on the anger piece and by the end of the week control had reared it’s head. I’ve been working with both Statements of Power that came through and I’m really feeling the shift and release of residual energy and a deeper integration of those power statements.
I’ve just been listening to SOUL Art TV – a BRILLIANT idea that emerged from the creative genius of Laura Hollick who has chosen to spearhead the Creative Spiritual Revolution through this medium. I think control is another name for that fake face (as co-guest Christine Arylo talks about on her episode on Soul Art TV) that we put on to show the world when we are really feeling yucky inside and feeling unable to manage whatever we’ve got going on in there or unloving to ourselves. Christine is the Queen of Self Love – you really must check her and her work out – it’s stupendous! In fact on Feb. 13 she’s created a huge special event – Madly In Love with ME Day – you can find the link at Soul Art TV – so sign up and get the goods!
I’ve been working on releasing control in all areas of my life – not just in my evolving relationship with my child but also in my relationship with my Divine Business and the beings who are mutually gathered to serve into the vision that the Divine Business is a vessel for carrying out in the world.
Every day my Divine Business Partner and I sit in meditation for about 15 – 20 minutes in the energy field of the business – did you know your business actually has a “field” of it’s own? You might not realize it but it’s quite true and that field can be “worked” on and the energy shifted so that you and the business are in right relationship with each other and creating more positive impact and profitable results!
Anyway – we’ve been “sitting” with the Deva of our business now for about 2 months and usually I have found that I’m in the energy field doing a lot of tracking and adjusting and tending and so forth (making sure everything’s under CONTROL perhaps???) and my partner has noticed that he’s been mostly sitting with the field and “being” with it in a love exchange. Last week he suggested that we change things up a bit – rather than having an unstructured sitting – he suggested that we spend the first half just “being” and the second half of our time exploring and interacting with the field.
What happened for me with this invitation was a settling down – and a cultivation of a deeper connection and ability to just BE with the business, so every day last week I was mostly just “being” until Friday. Within our SCORE for your Spiritually Energized Entrepreneurial Success system we’ve identified the 5 Pillars of Entrepreneurship and these pillars form the foundation for the Divine Business and also become touchpoints in the energetic anatomy.
On Friday after my period of “being” with the business when the chime indicated the time for a shift into interaction I was drawn to examine each of those pillars – and discovered various things going on in each one – then I asked is there anything else for me to do or notice and was given the invitation to go back to the center which is a RADIANT Core of LIGHT and just be again. As I was in this being state a message came loud and clear from the heart of our Divine Business – and it was this: “I am a self-regulating intelligent system that has the capacity and the power now to balance myself.” Basically what my business was telling me was to butt out and leave it be!! How cool is that – so I’m surrendering.
In fact I’m going to do more than surrender – I think I might just give myself permission to completely let go and SOAR (Surrender, Open, Activate and Radiate!) What do YOU think?
If you are working on letting go of some way of being that has been your default for far too long – sometimes it helps to have assistance! In fact we can and DO often take our “baggage” along with us into our businesses and business relationships – and this energy may not be serving us in more ways than one! When things aren’t working in your work you can be sure there is an energy shift that needs to happen for you. Sometimes our most profound growth comes through the desire to create a business that is going to serve the world in a very powerful way – and that relationship we have with our business becomes the playground for our soul path lessons and growth.
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During Mercury Retrograde energies are very supportive for doing anything that begins with the letters re! Releasing that all that no longer serves us is one of the biggies – along with reorganizing and rearranging. I have been on a tear over the last few weeks relentlessly (there’s another re for you) going through my whole house with a very cold clear intention to only keep that which is truly meaningful to me now.
This of course has resulted in quite a number of bags to go off to the Salvation Army, the soup kitchen and various other places where the items I’m letting go of will be of service to others. I’ve cleared an amazing amount of space and and most excited right now about the changes I’ve made in my office. In a previous post I wrote about clearing from my physical body I mentioned how my lower back and bottom were being impacted by the energy shifting that was being called forth for me now. I also realized that as I’ve shifted my business I’ve changed what I’m doing during the course of the day and am spending quite a bit more time sitting at the computer.
During the deepest moments of my discomfort I sent a message to my upstairs team asking for relief and what I was shown was reconfiguring my workspace so that I could have a number of choices about how and where I would be working. Specifically I was shown a tall table that I could comfortably stand at while computing in addition to a low table where I could compute sitting on the floor. Happily I was able to find the tall table fairly inexpensively and discovered the low table was already in my possession in the basement!
These are some pictures of my new workspace! I’m sure I will have much more joy and much less physical discomfort by being able to move around and work where I feel most comfortable in any particular moment. I recommend that you too take a look at your comfort level. If you are in discomfort that energy will permeate everything you do. As a Passionpreneur, aligning with your joy and allowing it to be easy is one of the greatest gifts that you can give yourself, your clients, your family, and your world. Even Staples is connected to this vibe with their EASY button. If Staples can “get it” surely you can too!
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Recently I’ve engaged in a “challenge” 30 blog posts in 30 days. Sometimes we say yes and only afterward realize what we have committed ourselves to. As an Energy Master I have a duty to myself to be clear and focused on what it is that I choose to do with my energy and because I myself am still “on journey” I’ve been given the opportunity once again to “discover” an old pattern of saying YES Uh Huh I’ll do that Seems Like a Good Idea – before really taking even the smallest of moments to breathe, scan, discern and determine if this is the right choice for me right now.
The intent behind this challenge is to help those of us who have agreed to join in to get into a regular habit of blogging – and as a result of that habit of sharing our information, wisdom or offerings to simultaneously build our business because the theory is with more blogging we’ll get more attention, more information or content out there and thus more opportunities to connect with the people who may be a fit for our services. All good in theory – perhaps another story in practice…
So I find myself right now a bit at odds with some of the things I know to be true:
1. – Whatever I need is always there for me all the time
2. – Those who are supposed to connect with me will show up – and be ready, willing and able to connect with the work that I have to offer – Exactly on Time
3. – I choose to allow the flow of people, money, connections, and opportunities to come to and through me with ease and grace – and I have in fact experienced this many times.
4. When I try to force the river – efforting, struggling, or pushing to create something whether it’s a blog post, a piece of music, a work of art or a harmonious relationship then I end up not only not really accomplishing what I desire but often times I end up burned out, used up, exhausted or unwell.
5. My creative process is well known to me at this point – when I create – it comes in spurts – I’ll sit down and make 27 pieces of jewelry in two days or 45 paintings in three weeks or write 5 books in one year and then when the flow is complete I’m done – I walk away and I might not touch the writing, the paintbrush or the beads again for weeks, months or maybe even years!
6. My work – when I bring the fullness of myself to it – is truly impactful – it is deep, profound, life altering work and the people who choose to connect with their own energy journey by investing in themselves through me are achieving phenomenal shifts and exponential growth in both their business and personal lives.
7. I must honor myself above all else – caring for my needs first – in order to be of the highest level of service to all. Do I need to do all these posts? or is ONE QUALITY post going to serve as powerfully as 30 little snippets?
So what is a shamaness to do when she discovers that perhaps she’s signed on for something that is not fully in alignment with what she knows to be true about herself? (or anyone for that matter??)
First I’ve decided to share my truth – here in this post and also with the person that I made the commitment to (that would be me! because in actuality when we commit to another we are committing ourselves!)
Secondly I’ve decided that I will blog when I feel the urge – when I feel that there is something of VALUE that I have to say – not just for the sake of blogging or of living up to some “challenge” or expectation that I have set for myself.
Thirdly if there comes a moment in the next 23 days where I decide I’m not going to be reaching this goal I will gracefully and easily give myself permission to back off – to take myself back from the edge (like we do in yoga) so that I don’t injure myself or send the energy of pushing too hard to do too much out with my posts.
Fourth I’ll ask myself to remember the next time someone sends me an invitation to jump on board and commit to something to take a breath AND a little journey along the choice/destiny lines to see into the future (I can do that you know – you can too) and determine if this is the right thing at the right time for me.
Discernment and self-knowledge are precious gifts – and they are to be used – not stored in the cupboard for when special company comes to visit!
Please feel free to comment on this post if you feel that it speaks to you in any way.
In celebration of the last week of summer I have decided (after careful discernment and sitting with the idea for about a week) that I’ll be picking 7 people to receive a free PEA (Personal Energy Assessment – Valued at $97.00) – one for each day of this final week before the Autumnal Equinox – to be considered for this contest please forward me an email to amethyst@amethystwyldfyre.com – put I Want a PEA in the subject line and be sure to let me know why you feel it would serve you at this time! (PEAS will be scheduled over the next several weeks for the winners!)
Sometimes we forget our connection to Source and we need a little assistant to Remember that we can be WYLDLY ABUNDANT – be sure to click that link and connect with the program that I did with Nicole Whitney of News For the Soul Radio fame if you would like to re-connect to your birthright of living a WYLDLY ABUNDANT life!
Strong Boundaries and clarity around what does or does not work for you as you navigate your ascension journey are up right now in the vibe. Understand that boundaries are a vital and crucial part of self-care. During an earlier post much was discussed about the importance of self- care during this 
time of great shift – just as you are advised by your “flight” attendants that in the event of an emergency you are to put the oxygen mask on yourself first – you are being advised to put care of the self first now. Exercise your ability to say no to others, to carve out time and space to nourish yourself, to go within and to hook “up” to your Source for guidance, healing, information and inspiration.
All around the effects of the dismantling of an old paradigm are being felt – it can be quite easy to get “caught” up in the fear matrix. The habits of complaining and feeding negative experiences with your personal energy whether it’s just thinking about “THE STATE OF THINGS!” or if it’s verbalizing and colluding with the consciousness that feeds negativity and fear into the mindstream no longer serves. The mental body is being called into alignment with the TRUE state of reality which is that you, each of you, individually has the power to create your own personal reality and this reality it predicated upon the thoughts you think and how you choose to spend your energy.
Thought forms that re-inforce low self esteem, lack consciousness, affirmation of failure, worry or any other negative energetic will IMMEDIATELY begin to manifest – you must have noticed by now that the ‘feedback’ loop has accelerated – instant Karma’s gonna get you as John Lennon said! Now more than ever it is imperative to CLEANSE AND PURIFY your mind – to FOCUS AND CONCENTRATE on what it is that you desire to create for yourself. Now more than ever it is TIME, TIME, TIME to LOSE THE MIND and find the HEART! Your HEART, your TRUE heart will always be providing you with positive steps in the direction of your destiny. Some of these steps may very well include disengaging from relationships or situations that are dragging you back, bringing you down or triggering old thought forms that no longer serve.
Use these triggers – they are a gift for you to see – what are you adding your energy to? Are you feeding your energy to the new beginnings? or Are you energizing what is falling apart? What is falling apart can be used to your advantage if you honor it, if you give gratitude for all that has led you to this place, if you willingly shed it all in one piece (call on the energies of SACHAMAMA – The Great Serpent to teach you how to shed easily and gracefully). When you shed in this way the energy that is released is broken down and fed back to you for your use in fertilizing the seeds of the new creation that is calling to be born through you.
Set boundaries – be clear on what you want – speak your truth. HOLD the boundaries from a space of honoring yourself – not a defensive posture that creates a wall – instead from an open hearted space that says I love myself so much that I’m going to take excellent care of myself which will then allow me to bring my best self to share with others. Don’t you think the others who are in your life looking to connect with you really want the best you? Don’t you think it makes sense that if you are going to connect in business, in parenting, in friendship or in romance that the best you will create the best experiences? If you are weak, exhausted, spent, confused, angry, depressed – who really wants to connect with that energy??? Only YOU (as Smoky the Bear would say) can fight forest fires. In the event of an emergency place the oxygen mask over your face first before trying to help others. It’s TIME!
Remember that setting clear boundaries can also be considered creating sacred space – sacred space within which you are able to RECEIVE. It is only when you carve out time and space for yourself and yourself alone that you are able to truly receive at the deepest levels – healing, intuition, activations, attunements, inspiration, rewiring. You who are lightworkers have been giving so much for so long. The time to RECEIVE is NOW. In the creation of sacred space for yourself, in the setting of clear boundaries, in the setting aside of time to receive – whether it’s a morning where you sleep in or an evening with a hot bath or an afternoon in meditation or a morning walk in the woods – you open the door for Spirit to come in and repair & replenish, rejuvenate and resource you so that you are prepared and ready for the next phase of ascension work that will be initiated.
Here is a gift Audio opening of Sacred Space in the Inka Tradition – it was from a client call with a female client – for the men out there no offense!! Just substitute the word “brother” in your head where I say “sister”! Enjoy Sacred Space Opening Audio
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